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Obviously, there always are problems if someone try to make important decisions. But everyone should learn to make decision, especially, in the modern society. It’s not to saying that parents or older relatives can help us sometimes rather than a life.
As an old saying that a person who can adapt the surrounding can survive which also can suit to modern society. The society needs a person who has himself ideas rather than doctrine. Parents who always decide all things fail to try to listen their children’s minds, gradually, which get rise to a new phenomenon of habitual reliance. In other word, when teenager suffer from problems that need to decide, even a little thing, these can make them fell afraid, hesitate, and even have no ideas but dependent on their parents or relatives and expect their help. Consequently, teenagers lost their abilities of thinking and deciding independence which not only give a bad influence on their study now, but on their work in future. My brother who worked for eight years still a common worker due to the lack of capacities of innovating and deciding by himself.
The above is a part of the picture, besides it can culture responsibilities of children that teenagers decide independently. According a recent survey that nowadays almost 80% children lack responsibilities, even 60% children fail to know what responsibility is. The survey indicates most children deem that there have no things that need them to be in charge of. Further more, it can hypothesis that there will be a day that teenager who become an adult either consider to support their parents as the same thing that have no associate with them. Therefore, it is a crucial that to make children are aware of responsibilities for their parents and society.
In modern society, most parents and older adult relatives are still under the illusion that they forever make decisions for their older teenage children not only can promote their children’s life, but protect them. If they can do without the dubious merits of improvement of their children’s life, they will swiftly find that to make important decisions in their children’s life play a prominent and beneficial role which not only can excise their children’s thinking method, but, more important, improve their responsible consciousness. Parents may, nevertheless, offer some advice that can improve the development of the thing for their children.
In a word, it has no deny saying that parents and older adult relatives are supposed to provide opportunities for their children to make important decisions.
