写的时间还是那么长, 我得开始反思了!!!!!!
Besides the parent and lover, it is only the friend that bolster your moral, nourish you spirit, comfort your heart, bless your fortune and enrich your life. To be similar or not to be? This is a question when choosing the type of friends. While it is true that we can share a great deal things, such as hobby, fondness of movie and political orientation, with the friends similar to us, it is not to say that we should be stranger or even enemy with the people different from us. We do need both types of friends, similar and different. If friends are considered as the most important ingredient in the recipe of life, then similar friends are sweet and fragrant seasoning while different friends are hot and spicy flavor.
For one thing, friends similar to you could be your partner. Because of similar opinion, thinking and hobbies, people could find that the experience with such type of friends would be pleasure, relaxed and fantastic. Nothing could recharge my battery like a warm conversation, a talk about fondness of hobby and a share of same kind of movie, songs and book. With this type of friends, people can practice sports together and cheer for the same sports team. With this type of friends, people will find mountain no longer high and ocean no more far away since they have companion to reach together. Moreover, people would procure professional success if they have a plenty of friends who bear same the dream, same eagerness and same courage. The google founder guys, Larry Page and Sergey Brin, could serve as an example of this type of friends since they both have same strong passion for internet searching. Their friendship somewhat help build an internet empire. Therefore, Friends similar to you adds the melody in an otherwise dull life.
For another, friends different to you could be your adviser. Friendship that flows from the heart can not be frozen by diversity, as the water that flows from the spring can not congeal in winter.Different perspective towards problems could spark the innovative idea. Different belief and custom would open up new world of fantasy. Different background would bring up a deepen thinking. People with different character and taste still can assemble a team to struggle for success. A good example concerns football Coach Herman Boone and Coach Bill Yoast who were living in the era of Martin Luther king jr. Herman is an African-American who is rigorous and good at attack while Bill is a Caucasian who is gentle and good at defense. However, it is their friendship beyond race and divergence that not only cultivated the camaraderie between the white players and black players but also made the T.C. Williams High School football team won the Virginia state championship in 1971. This event improved the race relationship in Alexandra city which had been in turmoil due to forced desegregation for generations. Therefore, friends don't have to be exactly the same.
To sum up, the similarity or diversity is not the main key to open up the world of friendship. It is the love that makes friendship goes around. Enjoy the love from similarity and diversity, people will find the friendship like the rainbow to brighten the life no matter how severe the storm is.
[ 本帖最后由 нандин 于 2008-6-15 15:20 编辑 ]